I couldn't wait for this neat little device to arrive as it is my first **** ring. I have been curious and excited about having my own. When it arrived, I immediately tried to put it on - not easy but not rocket science either. After several on-off-trimming evolutions, I had it fitting like it was custom-made! I know you're not supposed to wear these rings for long periods, and I try not to, but I miss its caress. I slept in it my first night, and what a hard when I awoke! My biggest problem was getting my balls through either the big or medium ring as they kept sneaking up out of my hands. I found that a snug rubber band around just the tops of the nuts while putting on kept them "available" for the push-pull exercise of ring insertion Then remove the band. A little powder helped, too. I've now found that the process of putting it on is as pleasurable as wearing! Would be neat if I could get my wife to do it . . .