My idea when I first saw this was not to wear it or have my wife wear it, but was to see if I could hook this harness around the seat of my weight bench at home. It works FANTASTICALLY !! My wife selects the ***** that she feels like riding that night and away she goes. She can either just work it and give me a great show or I can stand in front of her and get a ******* while she is working her **** of choice in her. The first night we tried it I had the harness more towards one end which gave me room to sit at the other facing each other. She slow ****** her favorite realistic looking **** in and out of her for me while I masturbated watching her. Before we were done I was able to scoot up close to her so we could kiss while she stroked me to an ****** while she was still grinding in her new toy. She is not into any 3-some ideas but does have fantasies about it which is where that is kept. In Fantasy Land. She did say though, that riding this while she can play with my ****, or have me play with her **** while we are kissing is as close to that fantasy as she can get. The weight bench is detachable so we can take it to any room in the house. Also, since the bench is only 20" high, it is a perfect height for lots of other ideas. We are still working on new ideas for this but so far this was one of the better buys that we have made at little cost. I am always trying to find something new to keep it fresh and entertaining and this one is one of our better ideas.