I am addicted to stretching the past 2 years and got to 3" last year and bought this as intermediate to get to 3.5" this year. It's size is mis-labeled. It is larger and more wonderful than the 3.2" advertised. It is 3.2" around the flare of the tip, narrows to 2.7" upper shaft, and widens to full 3.5" at the shaft base (11" circumference). When it came, I thought it would be a long time to get to the bottom of it. I prestretched with the Intimidator, and with lots of lube sat down on Monolith. The head took a little care to get all the way past the inside sphincter, it has an edge to the flare. Then as I slid farther down on it, it gently kept stretching me bigger and bigger and it felt so good till I was sitting right on the balls. I had never been so full. By now the head is also stretching something higher up that had never been over 3" before. Wow. Now up and down on the bottom half of it. I tried sitting with it all inserted but could only take it for 2 or 3 minutes it was so intense. It felt like I was coming but nothing came out because it was compressing the prostate so tight. Getting off it, the flare keeps the head in till you pull it out. All the way to 3.5" the first use. This is my favorite toy right now, but I plan to get the Cyclops soon, for 3.5" the whole distance, and the *** Servant plug to stretch the opening a little more. I waste way too much time on this, and think all day about my next session. Big toys are addicting.