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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The comfortable ankle cuffs easily adjust with velcro to fit snug and...

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  • Japanese Style Cotton Wrist or Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Japanese Style Cotton Wrist or Ankle Cuffs

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    Rope is the original bondage and restraint tool, and finding the right rope for the job is essential for safe, pleasurable play. Crafted from our 1...

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  • Sincerely, SS Lace Fur Lined Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Sincerely, SS Lace Fur Lined Handcuffs

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    @SINCERELY Lace Fur Lined Hand Cuffs offer beauty without compromising on durability. Use (2) lock and keys to tease and explore power exchanges. ...

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  • Sincerely Lace Corset Arm Cuffs O/S Black | SexToy.com
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    Sincerely Lace Corset Arm Cuffs O/S Black

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    Sincerely Lace Corset Arm Cuffs O/S Black from Sportsheets Keeping couples connected.

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  • Midnight Lace Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Midnight Lace Cuffs Black

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    Restraint can be a luxurious experience. Feel the gentle caress of the soft and Inviting fabric of fine lace as they secure around your wrists. The...

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  • Ouch! Plush Leather Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Plush Leather Ankle Cuffs

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    Designed to be comfortable during fetish play. Cuffs feature a furry lining, an adjustable strap with a sturdy clasp for a great fit and an attache...

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  • Ouch! Plush Leather Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Designed for comfort during fetish play. Cuffs feature a furry lining, an adjustable strap with a sturdy clasp for a great fit and an attached ring...

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  • Rouge Padded Ankle Cuff Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Rouge Padded Ankle Cuff Black/Red

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    Erotic leather ankle cuffs one D-ring and fully adjustable buckle straps. Padded and fully detachable trigger hook chain. Measures 16 in. by 2.75 i...

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs Furry | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs Furry

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    Play around and lock up your lover with these naughty metal and faux fur beginner's handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in ...

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  • S&M Enchanted Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    S&M Enchanted Spreader Bar

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    Spread your wrist or ankles with the bar. The is a strong, rigid bar with comfy cuffs that have a velvety feel. The cuffs have an easy on easy off ...

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  • S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint | SexToy.com
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    S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint

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    Test your flexibility with the adjustable connection strap.  Use in the front or behind to keep your partners arms in front or behind their body fo...

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  • Ouch! Adjustable Leather Handcuffs - Purple | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Adjustable Leather Handcuffs - Purple

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    Comfortable but incredibly secure, with quality leather straps with soft fabric on the outside. With straps for the cuffs adjusting the size is eas...

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  • Rouge Leg Spreader Bar 30in Adjustable | SexToy.com
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    Rouge Leg Spreader Bar 30in Adjustable

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    Tubular steel leg spreader with black leather cuffs allows you to put your lover in a spread leg position that will help you achieve deeper penetra...

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  • Sinful Soft Spreader Bar Black | SexToy.com
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    Sinful Soft Spreader Bar Black

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    This vinyl/neoprene soft spreader bar keeps your partner in an accepting position. Easy to use, comfortable and long lasting.

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  • Sinful Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Sinful Wrist Cuffs

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    Wrist cuffs with stunning midnight black finish feature nickel-free anodized hardware, aesthetically striking embossed vinyl, and are lined in soft...

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  • Rouge Padded Leather Ankle Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Rouge Padded Leather Ankle Cuffs Black

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    Erotic leather ankle cuffs one D-ring and fully adjustable buckle straps. Padded and fully detachable trigger hook chain.

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  • Rouge Padded Leather Wrist Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Rouge Padded Leather Wrist Cuffs Black

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    Erotic leather wrist cuffs one D-ring and fully adjustable buckle straps. Padded and fully detachable trigger hook chain.

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  • Rouge Plain Leather Wrist Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Rouge Plain Leather Wrist Cuffs Black

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    An exquisite pair of leather wrist cuffs. Fully adjustable buckle straps. Comes with a detachable double trigger hook chain connecting to a D-Ring....

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  • Lux Fetish Bondage Buddy Black Spreader - SexToy.com
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    Bondage Buddy

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    The wickedly versatile Bondage Buddy lets you get creative with your erotic restraint play. Easily bind wrists and ankles without having to tie a s...

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  • Lux Fetish Unisex Leatherette Cuffs Black - SexToy.com
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    Lux Fetish Unisex Leatherette Cuffs Black

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    Add some flair to your BDSM action with the Lux Fetish Unisex Leatherette Cuffs. You will be styling as you let your partner take control. Includes...

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  • Lux Fetish Quality Love Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Lux Fetish Quality Love Cuffs Black

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    Do not let any special night go to waste! Make sure to tease and lock up your lover in absolute comfort with our Lux Fetish Quality Love Cuffs. The...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition - Nipple Erector Set - SexToy.com
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    Ffle Cumfy Hogtie Black

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    Take total control over your lover`s every move with this beginners-friendly Cumfy Hogtie. This easy-to-use hogtie kit includes super-strong wrist ...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Ultimate Bed Restraint System - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Ultimate Bed Restraint System

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    Transform your bed into a passion playground with the Pipedream Ultimate Bed Restraint System. This easy-to-install bondage set is all you need to ...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Gag & Wrist Restraint | SexToy.com
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    Ff Gag and Wrist Restraint

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    If you`re looking for the ultimate all-in-one beginner bondage essential, look no further! The Fetish Fantasy Gag and Wrist Restraint will keep you...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.