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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Obedience Extreme Sex Bench With Restraint Straps | SexToy.com
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    Obedience Extreme Sex Bench With Restraint Straps

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  • Strict Slave Bondage Shackle Set Black | SexToy.com
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    Strict Slave Bondage Shackle Set Black

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    Limit your slaves mobility and remind them of your total control with an attractive and comfortable shackle set. The leather like collar and 4 cuff...

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    Stainless Steel Adjustable Pussy Clamp

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    Get creative with the tease and torment of your partners most delicate parts! This clamp allows you to spread those labia wide open, granting you a...

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  • Concede Wrist, Ankle Restraint Set With Hog-Tie Adapter | SexToy.com
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    Concede Wrist, Ankle Restraint Set With Hog-Tie Adapter

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    Bind your playthings wrists and ankles with these attractive quilted cuffs, made of a leather like material that is sturdy and elegant. A bonus hog...

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  • Squat Anal Impaler With Spreader Bar And Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Squat Anal Impaler With Spreader Bar And Cuffs

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    This devious Spreader Bar features a detachable impaler for you to thrust and impale your lover! Wrap your partners ankles with the included padded...

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  • Spread Xl Labia Spreader Straps | SexToy.com
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    Spread Xl Labia Spreader Straps

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    Adjustable pressure clamps and straps, fully adjustable Spread em wide! This Extra Large Labia Spreader is designed to open your lovers vagina and ...

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  • Frog-tie Restraint Set | SexToy.com
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    Frog-tie Restraint Set

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    Lock together your lovers ankles, wrists, and thighs to get them on their knees and open their body to your whims. Durable and comfortable, suitabl...

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  • Ouch Beginners Handcuffs Metal Red | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Beginners Handcuffs Metal Red

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  • Ouch Pleasure Handcuffs Furry Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Pleasure Handcuffs Furry Cuffs

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  • Ouch Leather Cuffs For Hand and Ankles O/S | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Leather Cuffs For Hand and Ankles O/S

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The cuffs of Ouch! have quality leather straps with elegant stitching...

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  • Ouch! Binding Restraint Kit Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Binding Restraint Kit Black

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  • Ouch Adjustable Leather Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Adjustable Leather Handcuffs

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  • Fifty Shades Of Grey Sweet Anticipation Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Wrist Cuffs

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  • Fifty Shades Of Grey Sweet Anticipation Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Ankle Cuffs

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  • Fifty Shades Of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Under Mattress Restraint Set

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  • Fifty Shades Of Grey Sweet Anticipation Spreader Bar With Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades Of Grey Sweet Anticipation Spreader Bar With Cuffs

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  • Ouch! Black & White Beginner Pleasure Furry Wrist Cuffs With Quick-release Button | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Beginner Pleasure Furry Wrist Cuffs With Quick-release Button

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  • Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Wrist Or Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Wrist Or Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps

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  • Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Hand Cuffs With Handle With Adjustable Straps Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Hand Cuffs With Handle With Adjustable Straps Black

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  • Ouch! Black & White Plush Bonded Leather Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Plush Bonded Leather Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps Black

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    The OUCH! Plush ankle cuffs have been designed with comfort in mind while being tied up in your play! The cuffs have a furry lining, an adjustable ...

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  • Ouch! Black & White Pleasure Furry Handcuffs With Quick-release Button | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Pleasure Furry Handcuffs With Quick-release Button

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  • Ouch! Black & White Velcro Hogtie With Hand And Ankle Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Velcro Hogtie With Hand And Ankle Cuffs Black

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  • Ouch! Black & White Bed Bindings Restraint System Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Bed Bindings Restraint System Black

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    Transform any bed into a wonderland of fun and let the games begin! The durable nylon tethers connect to 4 super soft neoprene-lined cuffs, which e...

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  • Spartacus Green Pu Wrist Cuffs With Plush Lining | SexToy.com
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    Spartacus Green Pu Wrist Cuffs With Plush Lining

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    Red PU Wrist Restraints is Lined with Soft Microfiber Lining and Comes with Golden Nickel-Free Hardware. Fits 6" to 9" Circumference. Comes with Re...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.