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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Bondage Couture Rope Rose Gold | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Couture Rope - Rose Gold

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    Indulge your innermost desires with Bondage Couture from NS Novelties. Meticulously crafted from superior materials and featuring exquisite details...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Silk Rope Hogtie - SexToy.com
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    Ff Silk Rope Hog Tie

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    Secure your lover in a classic bondage position with this rope hogtie restraint. Perfect for beginners and strong enough for pros. The knots come t...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Beginners Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Beginner's Cuffs

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    Perfect for wrists or ankles! Add a hint of bondage to the bedroom with these playful Beginner's Cuffs. With two adjustable leather cuffs tethered ...

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  • Sportsheets Saffron Adjustable Neck & Wrist Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Sportsheets Saffron Adjustable Neck & Wrist Restraints

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    Buckle in, things are about to get spicy. Use their body as its own restraint system with the Saffron Neck & Wrist Restraint. Position the spin...

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  • Sportsheets Saffron Adjustable Thigh & Wrist Cuff Set | SexToy.com
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    Sportsheets Saffron Adjustable Thigh & Wrist Cuff Set

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    Secure your lover in place and explore all the possibilities of the Saffron Thigh & Wrist Cuff Set. Designed to work with your favorite positio...

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  • Bound Rope 25ft Silver | SexToy.com
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    Bound Rope - Silver

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    Tie the one you love and show them the ropes. Bound collection features ropes in assorted colors that are comfortable and non-chaffing. Mix and mat...

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  • Bound Rope 25ft Pink | SexToy.com
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    Bound Rope - Pink

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  • Bound Rope 25ft Purple | SexToy.com
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    Bound Rope - Purple

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    Tie the one you love and show them the ropes. Bound collection features ropes in assorted colors that are comfortable and non-chaffing. Mix and mat...

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  • Bound Rope 25ft Red | SexToy.com
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    Bound Rope - Red

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  • Bound Rope 25ft Green | SexToy.com
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    Bound Rope - Green

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  • Bound Rope 25ft Gold | SexToy.com
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    Bound Rope - Gold

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  • Cosmo Harness Crave S/m | SexToy.com
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    Cosmo Harness Crave - S/M Rainbow

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    Dress up your assets with Cosmo’s stylish chest harness. Accented with rose gold nickel-free hardware and adjustable straps for the perfect fit. M...

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  • Cosmo Harness Risque S/m | SexToy.com
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    Cosmo Harness Risque - S/M Rainbow

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  • Cosmo Harness Risque L/xl | SexToy.com
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    Cosmo Harness Risque - L/XL Rainbow

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  • Cosmo Harness Vamp L/xl | SexToy.com
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    Cosmo Harness Vamp - L/XL Rainbow

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  • Cosmo Harness Bewitch S/m | SexToy.com
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    Cosmo Harness Bewitch - S/M Rainbow

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  • Cosmo Harness Bewitch L/xl | SexToy.com
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    Cosmo Harness Bewitch - L/XL Rainbow

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  • Ple'sur Purple & Black 10 M / 33 Ft. Rope Kit 2-pack | SexToy.com
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    Ple'sur Purple & Black 10 M / 33 Ft. Rope Kit 2-pack

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    These 2 pack rope kits are great sellers, perfect for beginners or experienced BDSM players. Durable yet soft bondage rope perfect for intricate an...

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  • Kinklab Pink Bound Leather Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Kinklab Pink Bound Leather Ankle Cuffs

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    These soft and sturdy KinkLab Pink Bound Leather Ankle Cuffs don't buckle; they wrap around the ankle, making them simple and quick to handle. Thes...

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  • Kinklab Pink Bound Leather Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Kinklab Pink Bound Leather Wrist Cuffs

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    If you want to try being tied up but don't want to feel too confined, the KinkLab Pink Bound Leather Wrist Cuffs are a perfect place to start becau...

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  • Hold Me Bedroom Restraint System Black Standard Bed | SexToy.com
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    Hold Me Bedroom Restraint System Black Standard Bed

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    The Frisky Restraint System is portable and easily restrains with H shaped straps which fit underneath any size bed and reach around to securely cu...

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  • Fifty Shades Of Grey Totally His Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Totally His Handcuffs

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    Strong, secure and exciting restraint play is yours to discover with these bondage handcuffs. With a sumptuously soft velvet lining and sleek satin...

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  • Adjustable Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    Adjustable Spreader Bar

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    Spread 'em wide! The Adjustable Spreader Bar from KinkLab adjusts from 25in - 37in (63.5 - 94cm). It breaks down into 3 parts for easy travel and h...

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  • Exposed Booty Tape (20 Pieces Per Box) - SexToy.com
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    Exposed Booty Tape - Black

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    <p>Looking to spice up date night, explore roleplaying/light bondage, or just tired of manually spreading cheeks? Enter Exposed Booty Tape- t...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.