Bondage & Kink

About BDSM 

Sex isn’t only intercourse. It’s also the touching, the romance, the anticipation, and so on. Sometimes the touching is a good whack of a paddle. Sometimes the romance is symbolized with a leash. Sometimes the anticipation builds from being tied up, gagged, and blindfolded. These extracurricular instruments and activities represent the BDSM lifestyle. BDSM, or Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism, is characterized by the dominant-submissive relationship between partners. Fans partake in the thrill of surrendering control or being in control of another person, with proper consent and safe words, of course. There are a LOT of means to facilitate this dynamic. 

Restraints facilitate the bulk of bondage play. Doms limit the movement of their subs with any combination of cuffs, straps, rope, tape, and so forth. When tied to the bed or cuffed behind the back, subs are especially prone to the will of their dom, creating an exciting feeling of surrender.

Gags and blindfolds expand restraint play to your senses and speech. Blindfolds build anticipation to a near-unbearable level by limiting what you can see with a silk, leather, or furry eye mask. Other senses are heightened and every touch is exciting. Gags assert a tremendous trust between the dominant and submissive by restricting communication. Most commonly a ball gag, variations include bit gags, hollow gags, and more. 

Impact play and spanking toys are in the arsenal of any good dominatrix! These include paddles, floggers, crops, whips, and anything else that might leave a bruise on your skin. If you want to keep it light, impact play toys are usually built to make a loud “crack” even with a gentle slap.

Sensation play devices don’t hurt like impact toys, but they can be every bit as torturous! The brush of a feather tickler or the swipe of a ball chain whip will ignite the nerves like no other, especially when paired with bed cuffs or a blindfold. The lightest touch will build the most unbearable anticipation. 

Clamps are for those who like to be pinched or bitten. There are multiple styles of nipple clamps, including tweezers, clips, magnets, suckers, pull chains, and more in many decorative styles to match your personal aesthetic. Adventurous pinchers can even try clit clamps. 

Position harnesses and sex furniture restrain your whole body to rest in specific positions. These include thigh slings, which wrap around your neck and legs to keep them spread, sex swings, which suspend you entirely from the ceiling or door jam, and more creative devices to keep you comfortably exposed. Also great for those with mobility issues! 

Fetish wear and lingerie are key to achieving your BDSM fantasy! One of the most exciting thrills of BDSM play is to be entrenched in the proper atmosphere, which may include a dungeon prisoner’s harness, a dominatrix mask, a gimp hood, and more! Many leather and vegan options are available. 

Chastity cages and belts are clever devices that expand your BDSM play beyond the bedroom. Chastity play entails “locking up” your penis, only to be touched at the behest of your keyholder. The submissive partner locks their penis in and hands the key to the dominant partner, leaving the sub unable to achieve an erection or touch their penis until the dom is ready. 

Wearable toys are another means to push your play out into the real world. Slipping in a secret anal plug or panty vibe before you leave the house is a great way to have clandestine fun. Even within the house, passing the remote control to your partner demands submission to pleasure! 

Medical play toys are for the discerning participants ready for a full-body examination! The stainless steel and silicone devices of this genre resemble, if not perfectly mimic, real medical devices for exciting bodily manipulation, including gloves, Wartenberg wheels, urethral sounds, and more!