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Restraints

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Female Chest Harness Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Female Chest Harness Black Leather

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    Female Chest Harness Black Leather

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  • Deluxe Over The Door Restraint System Black | SexToy.com
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    Deluxe Over The Door Restraint System Black

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    Pin your lover against the door and take them standing up! These sturdy over the door restraints allow you to live out your spicy bondage fantasy w...

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  • Strict Thigh Cuff Restraint System Black | SexToy.com
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    Strict Thigh Cuff Restraint System Black

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    Your play thing will not be able to move their wrists when you bind them with this unique cuff set. Each restraint buckles around the thigh and con...

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  • Deluxe Thigh Sling With Wrist Cuffs Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Deluxe Thigh Sling With Wrist Cuffs Black Leather

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    Get your play thing into the perfect position for penetration! Spread those legs open and restrain those wrists! This highly adjustable bondage sli...

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  • Strict Spreader Bar System Black | SexToy.com
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    Strict Spreader Bar System Black

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    Strap your lover into this comfortable spreader bar to heighten the mood! Excite your sex life with this bondage positioning aid, designed to sprea...

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  • Deluxe Bed Restraint Kit Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Deluxe Bed Restraint Kit Black Leather

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    Strap your partner down to the bed and turn them into your personal submissive pet! Instantly transform your bed into a piece of bondage furniture,...

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  • Frog Tie Kneeling Bondage Restraint System Black | SexToy.com
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    Frog Tie Kneeling Bondage Restraint System Black

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    Create easy access to your lovers body and orifices when you strap them into these durable and light weight frog tie restraints. Designed to wrap a...

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  • Arm Binder Biceps & Forearm Restraints Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Arm Binder Biceps & Forearm Restraints Black Leather

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    Trap your submissives arms behind their back, while you have your way with them. Made with locking buckles, your plaything will be thoroughly trapp...

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  • Male Full Body Harness Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Male Full Body Harness Black Leather

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    Strap into this full body harness, designed to wrap seductively around your body and cock! Three adjustable straps ensure that this sexy bondage ac...

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  • Full Sleeve Armbinder Black Leather Restraint | SexToy.com
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    Full Sleeve Armbinder Black Leather Restraint

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    Pinch your partners arms together behind their back to fully restrain them for your amusement! This full sleeve is a unique piece of bondage gear t...

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  • Strict 7 Piece Bondage Adventure Set | SexToy.com
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    7 Piece Bondage Adventure Kit

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    Bind your lover in sexy, bondage black, and do all the dirty things to them that you have been promising! This matching black bondage set includes ...

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  • Strict Hog-Tie Restraint System Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Strict Hog-Tie Restraint System Black Leather

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    Strap your lover into this comfortable spreader bar to heighten the mood! Excite your sex life with this bondage positioning aid, designed to sprea...

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  • Strict Bondage Board Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Board

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    Turn any space into a sex dungeon! The Bondage Board is designed to bring your fantasies with you, wherever you go! Simply unfold the board and at...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.