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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Scandal Control Cuffs Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Control Cuffs Black/Red

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  • Scandal Bed Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Bed Restraints

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    Scandal Bed Restraints from Cal Exotics. Includes totally adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs. Soft and plushy on one side, with designer fabric on th...

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  • Scandal Spreader Bar Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Spreader Bar Black/Red

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  • Scandal Bed Restraints Kit | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Bed Restraints Kit

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    Stretch to fit blindfold. Fully adjustable, breathable ball gag. Cross style bed restraints adjustable to fit mattresses up to Cal King size. Inclu...

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  • Scandal Universal Cuffs Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Universal Cuffs Black/Red

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  • Scandal Over The Door Cuffs Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Over The Door Cuffs Black/Red

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    Scandal Over The Door Cuffs total surrender to a trusted lover increases emotional connection. Everybody wants to be a little naughty. Cuffing and ...

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  • Scandal Bondage Bar | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Bondage Bar

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    Everybody wants to be a little naughty! Spreader bar with adjustable Velcro ankle and wrist cuffs. Soft, collapsible design for versatile use. Soft...

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  • Scandal Corset Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Corset Cuffs

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    Everybody wants to be a little naughty. Explore the boundaries of trust and intimacy with these Scandal Corset Cuffs. Totally adjustable cuffs with...

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  • Scandal Lovers Tape | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Lovers Tape Red is sized for lovers. Reusable, versatile, multi-purpose, self adhesive bondage tape. Made using PVC. Bulk weight 1.9oz. 49....

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  • Scandal Over The Bed Cross Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Over The Bed Cross Restraints

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    Scandal Over the Bed Cross style bed restraints. Includes totally adjustable and detachable universal wrist and ankle cuffs. Soft and plushy on one...

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  • Scandal BDSM Rope Black | SexToy.com
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    Scandal BDSM Rope Black

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    Thoughtfully designed for mutual pleasure. Make more of your intimate moments. Bulk Weight 6 ounces. Package weight 6.6 ounces. Package 2.25 inches...

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  • Scandal 8 Points Of Pleasure Love Bed Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Scandal 8 Points Of Pleasure Love Bed Restraints

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    Thoughtfully designed for mutual pleasure. Make more of your intimate moments. Non-tarnishing and nickel free, this product is safe and worry free....

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  • Scandal BDSM Rope 98.5 feet Black | SexToy.com
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    Scandal BDSM Rope 98.5 feet Black

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    Give into your BDSM fantasies and get creative with 98.5 feet of Scandal BDSM Rope. Our award winning Scandal Collection has created the silky smoo...

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  • Scandal BDSM Rope 164 feet Black | SexToy.com
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    Scandal BDSM Rope 164 feet Black

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    Scandal BDSM Rope 50 meter e or approximately 164 feet Black from California Exotic Novelties. Dive into your BDSM fantasies and get creative with ...

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  • Spread Me Black Steel Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    Spread Me Black Steel Spreader Bar

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    Master Series Black Steel Adjustable Spreader Bar. Keep your plaything in place and spread them wide with this darkly sexy spreader bar. Made of du...

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  • Acquire Easy Access Thigh Harness With Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com

    Acquire Easy Access Thigh Harness With Wrist Cuffs

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    Your submissive lover wants to be even more vulnerable to your desires! Put them in this positioning harness to spread their legs open and keep the...

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  • Coax Collar To Wrist Restraints Black Brown | SexToy.com
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    Coax Collar to Wrist Restraints

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    Lock up your slave in this attractive and unique collar to wrist restraint set. This three-in-one bondage gear contains a luxurious vegan-friendly...

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  • Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black | SexToy.com
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    Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black

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    Restrain your partner with seven body straps in varying lengths. Each one adjusts to tighten around your lovers prone body, allowing you to customi...

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  • The Extreme Enforcer Humbler With Ankle Restraints | SexToy.com
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    The Extreme Enforcer Humbler With Ankle Restraints

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    Remind your slave that his place is at your feet with a sick and twisted bondage contraption. The wooden Humbler will keep him on his knees with hi...

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  • Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps Black | SexToy.com
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    Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps Black

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    Turn up the intensity of your kinkiest scenes with these unique straps, designed to wrap around your thighs, clamp onto your labia, and spread them...

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  • Obedience Extreme Sex Bench With Restraint Straps | SexToy.com
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    Obedience Extreme Sex Bench With Restraint Straps

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    Act out dark fantasies or prepare for intense impact play scenes when you strap your lover into the Obedience Extreme Sex Bench! This heavy duty pi...

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  • Stainless Steel Adjustable Pussy Clamp | SexToy.com
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    Stainless Steel Adjustable Pussy Clamp

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    Get creative with the tease and torment of your partners most delicate parts! This clamp allows you to spread those labia wide open, granting you a...

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  • Concede Wrist, Ankle Restraint Set With Hog-Tie Adapter | SexToy.com
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    Concede Wrist, Ankle Restraint Set With Hog-Tie Adapter

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    Bind your playthings wrists and ankles with these attractive quilted cuffs, made of a leather like material that is sturdy and elegant. A bonus hog...

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  • Scandal Over The Door Bondage Cross | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Over The Door Bondage Cross

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    This set of over the door restraints are cross-shaped, to hold both their wrists and ankles. Fully adjustable to fit standard and oversized doors, ...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.