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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Sex and Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Sex and Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs

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    One pair of vegan leather and fur lined handcuffs. Adjustable buckle closure. Black hardware with dual clasps.

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  • Sex And Mischief Silky Sash Restraints Black | SexToy.com
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    Sex And Mischief Silky Sash Restraints Black

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    2 luxurious silky sashes, 4 feet long and 4 inches wide. Use on wrists, ankles, as a blindfold, or anywhere you can imagine. Polyester fabric.

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  • Bed Bondage Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Bed Bondage Restraint Kit

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    Bed Bondage Restraint Kit Keep your restraints ready to use at any time! Once the restraints are attached and in place, they are easily tucked bet...

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  • Bondage Bar with Neoprene Velcro Cuffs 24 inches Black | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Bar

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    Four comfortable neoprene and Velcro cuffs attached to a rigid nylon-covered 24spreader bar.Perfect for multiple positions.Easily secures your par...

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  • Sportsheets Saffron Handcuffs Black Red | SexToy.com
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    Sportsheets Saffron Handcuffs Black Red

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    Sportsheets Saffron Cuffs turn up the spice with these red hot wrist restraints. Bright scarlet on darkest midnight vegan leather creates an iconic...

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  • S&M Furry Handcuffs: Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Furry Handcuffs: Black

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    Naughty and oh so nice. These sturdy nickel-free metal cuffs are covered with soft black faux fur. Fully locking cuffs with metal keys included.

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  • Adjustable Handcuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Adjustable Handcuffs Black

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    Adjustable Handcuffs (Black) Restraint play made easy with this pair of soft, yet sturdy cuffs with easy on easy off closures. They connect with a...

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  • Sportsheets Saffron Gauntlet Cuffs Black Red | SexToy.com
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    Sportsheets Saffron Gauntlet Cuffs Black Red

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    Sportsheets Saffron Gauntlet Cuffs turn your companion into a captive. Increase the sense of adventure and introduce the thrill of powerlessness to...

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  • Sincerely, SS Lace Fur Lined Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Sincerely, SS Lace Fur Lined Handcuffs

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    @SINCERELY Lace Fur Lined Hand Cuffs offer beauty without compromising on durability. Use (2) lock and keys to tease and explore power exchanges. ...

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  • Sincerely Lace Corset Arm Cuffs O/S Black | SexToy.com
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    Sincerely Lace Corset Arm Cuffs O/S Black

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    Sincerely Lace Corset Arm Cuffs O/S Black from Sportsheets Keeping couples connected.

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  • Midnight Lace Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Midnight Lace Cuffs Black

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    Restraint can be a luxurious experience. Feel the gentle caress of the soft and Inviting fabric of fine lace as they secure around your wrists. The...

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  • S&M Enchanted Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    S&M Enchanted Spreader Bar

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    Spread your wrist or ankles with the bar. The is a strong, rigid bar with comfy cuffs that have a velvety feel. The cuffs have an easy on easy off ...

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  • S&M Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    S&M Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs

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    Spread your wrist or ankles with this strong, rigid bar is adorned with metal cuffs. Use the key or quick release for easy on, easy off adjustabili...

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  • S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint | SexToy.com
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    S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint

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    Test your flexibility with the adjustable connection strap.  Use in the front or behind to keep your partners arms in front or behind their body fo...

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  • Expand Spreader Bar & Cuffs Set Aluminum Silver | SexToy.com
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    Expand Spreader Bar & Cuffs Set Aluminum Silver

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    Spreader Bar expands from 29 inches to 37 inches. Three easy steps to assemble; instructions inside. Contains: one 14.5 inches center aluminum tube...

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  • S&M Silky Rope Kit: Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Silky Rope Kit: Black

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    These two 6-foot lengths of silky, red rope are perfect for Shibari, Japanese-style bondage play. Includes knot-tying guide.These two 6-foot length...

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  • S&M Metal Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    S&M Metal Handcuffs

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    Nickel free metal handcuffs with quick release. Fully locking cuffs with metal keys included.

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  • S&M Our First Bondage Kit Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Our First Bondage Kit Black

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    This kit is perfect for couples who want to explore light restraint play. Includes these soft black accessories: 1 blindfold and 4 wrist/ankle cuff...

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  • Beginner's Handcuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Beginner's Handcuffs Black

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    Beginner's Handcuffs (Black) The Beginner's Handcuffs are a perfect introduction to restraint play. These cuffs are super soft, made from Sportshe...

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  • Sportsheets Soft Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Cuff Love - Black

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    Sturdy nylon, Velcro straps are lined with soft, Velboa faux fur and connect with a quick releasing safety clip. Packaged in a clear .33mm envelope...

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  • 5 Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set | SexToy.com
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    5 Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set

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     A timeless bondage classic. Four adjustable cuffs clip around a heavy duty metal o-ring. Comfortable cuffs adjust for easy on and easy off with Ve...

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  • Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling | SexToy.com
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    Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling

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    You won't believe what you can do behind closed doors! This Special Edition of our classic Door Jam Sex Sling includes a detachable Dildo and Bulle...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.