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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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    Fifty Shades Hard Limits Restraint KitEverything you need for full body restraint, the Restraint Kit expertly turns your bed or other furniture int...

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  • Ouch! - Door Restraint Set - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Door Restraint Set - Black

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    @winter2019-61Door Restraint Set - Black. Easily attach to any door to enjoy some bondage fun. Just place the 2 acrylic tubes over the top of any o...

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  • Ouch Halo Thigh Cuffs Burgundy | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Halo Thigh Cuffs Burgundy

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    If you are going to follow the rules that were laid out to you, do so in style! The luxurious color, the lovely leather look and beautiful golden d...

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  • Ouch Halo Wrist & Ankle Cuffs Green | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Halo Wrist & Ankle Cuffs Green

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    If you are going to follow the rules that were laid out to you, do so in style! The luxurious color, the lovely leather look and beautiful golden d...

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  • Ouch! - Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black

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    @winter2019-61Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black. The Bondage Belt Restraint System will turn your bedroom into the ultimate fun zone. For begin...

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  • Ouch! - Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black

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    Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black. The Bed post-restraint kit is perfect for those couples looking to explore bondage in the bedroom. Easily ...

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  • Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit 5 Piece Hemp Rope Kit | SexToy.com
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    Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit 5 Piece Hemp Rope Kit

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    This collection includes everything needed for safe and thrilling rope bondage. Three bundles of Hogtied Bind and Tie Hemp Bondage Rope - a strong,...

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  • Ouch! Velcro Cuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Velcro Cuffs - Black

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    These comfortable furry hand and leg cuffs easily adjust, with velcro to fit snug, and they're big enough to wear around the ankles or wrists. Meas...

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  • Rouge Leg Spreader Bar 30in Adjustable | SexToy.com
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    Rouge Leg Spreader Bar 30in Adjustable

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    Tubular steel leg spreader with black leather cuffs allows you to put your lover in a spread leg position that will help you achieve deeper penetra...

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  • Sinful Metal Cuffs W/keys & Love Rope | SexToy.com
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    Sinful Metal Cuffs W/keys & Love Rope

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    Metal cuffs with keys includes soft cotton rope (almost 10 feet long).

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  • Expand Spreader Bar & Cuffs Set Aluminum Silver | SexToy.com
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    Expand Spreader Bar & Cuffs Set Aluminum Silver

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    Spreader Bar expands from 29 inches to 37 inches. Three easy steps to assemble; instructions inside. Contains: one 14.5 inches center aluminum tube...

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  • S&M Our First Bondage Kit Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Our First Bondage Kit Black

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    This kit is perfect for couples who want to explore light restraint play. Includes these soft black accessories: 1 blindfold and 4 wrist/ankle cuff...

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  • Kinklab Neoprene Black On Black Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Kinklab Neoprene Black On Black Cuffs

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    Our washable fabric cuffs are easy to put on and take off thanks to the wraparound Velcro design! Made of soft, foamy neoprene lined with silky smo...

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  • Ouch Halo Hogtie Connector Burgundy | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Halo Hogtie Connector Burgundy

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    If you are going to follow the rules that were laid out to you, do so in style! The luxurious color, the lovely leather look and beautiful golden d...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Bed Bindings Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Bed Restraint Bondage Kit

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    Explore your fetish fantasies! Transform your bed into a passion playground with the Bed Restraint Bondage Kit from Fetish Fantasy. This under-the-...

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  • Ouch! - Door Swing - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Door Swing - Black

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    @winter2019-61Door Swing - Black. Explore a variety of new positions with an ordinary door. Just place the 2 acrylic tubes over the top of any open...

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  • Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling | SexToy.com
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    Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling

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    You won't believe what you can do behind closed doors! This Special Edition of our classic Door Jam Sex Sling includes a detachable Dildo and Bulle...

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  • Ouch Halo Thigh Cuffs Green | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Halo Thigh Cuffs Green

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.