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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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    Fifty Shades Hard Limits Restraint KitEverything you need for full body restraint, the Restraint Kit expertly turns your bed or other furniture int...

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  • Kink Hogtie Bind & Tie Wrist Or Ankle Cuffs .23 inch Natural | SexToy.com
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    Kink Hogtie Bind & Tie Wrist Or Ankle Cuffs .23 inch Natural

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    Rope is the original bondage and restraint tool, and finding the right rope for the job is essential for safe, pleasurable play. Crafted from our B...

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    Bondage Couture Rope - Gold

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  • Bondage Couture Rope 25 Feet - Blue | SexToy.com
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  • Lux Fetish Bondage Rope 33 Ft/10 M - Black - SexToy.com
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    Get creative with your bondage play with Lux Fetish's Bondage Rope. Featuring a rich black color, this rope will restrain your partner securely whe...

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  • Lux Fetish Bondage Rope 16 Ft/5 M - Black - SexToy.com
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  • Japanese Style Cotton Wrist or Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Japanese Style Cotton Wrist or Ankle Cuffs

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    Rope is the original bondage and restraint tool, and finding the right rope for the job is essential for safe, pleasurable play. Crafted from our 1...

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    For both beginners and restraint enthusiasts, these premium silicone cuffs feature a single piece molded design with no metal hardware to break, sn...

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  • Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit 5 Piece Hemp Rope Kit | SexToy.com
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    Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit 5 Piece Hemp Rope Kit

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  • The 9's, Orange Is The New Black, Tie Me Ups Cotton/nylon Blend Bondage Rope, Black With Orange Aigl | SexToy.com
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    Cotton/nylon bondage rope feels so erotic against the skin. 16 ft. length.

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  • Lux Fetish Bondage Rope Red 10 Feet | SexToy.com
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    S&M Silky Rope Kit: Black

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    These two 6-foot lengths of silky, red rope are perfect for Shibari, Japanese-style bondage play. Includes knot-tying guide.These two 6-foot length...

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    Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling

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    Kinklab Panamorphic 3-in-1 Paddle

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    Ouch Harness Men Chain Chain OS

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    The harness that makes the perfect addition to any BDSM lover’s collection. This heavy-duty harness serves fetish realness when worn over clothes, ...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.