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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Black

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    Lock up your lover with these great metal handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose both keys. Measures 4.25 in....

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  • Ouch! Old School Tattoo Printed Cuffs W/ Strap Handle | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Old School Tattoo Printed Cuffs W/ Strap Handle

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    Looking for a handcuff with a handle made for hardcore play? Look no further. The Adjustable Leather Handcuffs with Handle from Ouch! are comfortab...

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  • Ouch! - Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black

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    @winter2019-61Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black. The Bondage Belt Restraint System will turn your bedroom into the ultimate fun zone. For begin...

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  • Ouch! - Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black

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    Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black. The Bed post-restraint kit is perfect for those couples looking to explore bondage in the bedroom. Easily ...

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  • Luxury Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Luxury Ankle Cuffs

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    @winter2019-67Luxury Ankle Cuffs - Burgundy. Enrich you BDSM play with these elegant yet super strong ankle cuffs! With 7 adjustable holes, they wi...

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  • Luxury Hand Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Luxury Hand Cuffs

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    @winter2019-67Luxury Hand Cuffs - Burgundy. Enrich your BDSM play with these elegant yet super strong handcuffs! With 6 adjustable holes they will ...

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  • Printed Handcuffs With Handle Love Street Art Fashion Black | SexToy.com
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    Printed Handcuffs With Handle Love Street Art Fashion Black

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    Looking for a hand cuff with handle that is made to play hard with? Look no further. The Ajustable Leather Handcuffs with Handle of Ouch! are comfo...

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  • Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The comfortable ankle cuffs easily adjust with velcro to fit snug and...

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  • Ouch! Japanese Rope 10 Meter | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Japanese Rope 10 Meter

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    Made of a very silky and comfortable material for rope play. Length is 10 meters (33 feet). Width is 0.8 cm (0.3 in.). @OUCHRED

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  • Ouch! Plush Leather Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Plush Leather Ankle Cuffs

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    Designed to be comfortable during fetish play. Cuffs feature a furry lining, an adjustable strap with a sturdy clasp for a great fit and an attache...

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  • Ouch! Plush Leather Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Designed for comfort during fetish play. Cuffs feature a furry lining, an adjustable strap with a sturdy clasp for a great fit and an attached ring...

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs Furry | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs Furry

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    Play around and lock up your lover with these naughty metal and faux fur beginner's handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in ...

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  • Ouch! Adjustable Leather Handcuffs - Purple | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Adjustable Leather Handcuffs - Purple

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    Comfortable but incredibly secure, with quality leather straps with soft fabric on the outside. With straps for the cuffs adjusting the size is eas...

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  • Ouch! Japanese Mini Rope - 1.5m - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Japanese Mini Rope - 1.5m - Black

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    Tie up your lover with this soft nylon rope. Short but sweet. About 5 ft (1.5 meter) long.

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  • Ouch! Velcro Cuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Velcro Cuffs - Black

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    These comfortable furry hand and leg cuffs easily adjust, with velcro to fit snug, and they're big enough to wear around the ankles or wrists. Meas...

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  • S&M Silky Rope Kit: Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Silky Rope Kit: Black

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    These two 6-foot lengths of silky, red rope are perfect for Shibari, Japanese-style bondage play. Includes knot-tying guide.These two 6-foot length...

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  • S&M Metal Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    S&M Metal Handcuffs

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    Nickel free metal handcuffs with quick release. Fully locking cuffs with metal keys included.

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  • S&M Our First Bondage Kit Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Our First Bondage Kit Black

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    This kit is perfect for couples who want to explore light restraint play. Includes these soft black accessories: 1 blindfold and 4 wrist/ankle cuff...

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  • Beginner's Handcuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Beginner's Handcuffs Black

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    Beginner's Handcuffs (Black) The Beginner's Handcuffs are a perfect introduction to restraint play. These cuffs are super soft, made from Sportshe...

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  • Sportsheets Soft Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Cuff Love - Black

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    Sturdy nylon, Velcro straps are lined with soft, Velboa faux fur and connect with a quick releasing safety clip. Packaged in a clear .33mm envelope...

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  • 5 Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set | SexToy.com
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    5 Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set

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     A timeless bondage classic. Four adjustable cuffs clip around a heavy duty metal o-ring. Comfortable cuffs adjust for easy on and easy off with Ve...

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  • Door Jam Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Door Jam Cuffs

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    These cuffs easily fit around the wrists and ankles with Velcro closure. Tubes hold the straps in place behind any door turning even the most blan...

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  • Sportscuffs (black) | SexToy.com
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    Sportscuffs (black)

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    Sportscuffs (Black)These soft adjustable neoprene cuffs with Velcro closures are perfect for wrist or ankles or put combine them to make a collar....

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  • Sportscuffs and Tethers Kit | SexToy.com
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    Sportscuffs and Tethers Kit

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    Soft comfortable cuffs can fit wrists or ankles. Can be put together to make a collar. Pair of 48 inch adjustable length tethers.

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.