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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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    Under The Bed Restraint Turn any size bed into a place of binding pleasure. Restraint straps quickly fit beneath any mattress or frame without hoo...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Japanese Silk Rope Hogtie Black - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Japanese Silk Rope Hogtie - Black

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    master the ancient art of Japanese rope bondage with ease. This pre-assembled Japanese Silk Rope Hogtie makes securing your lover simple - just sli...

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    Ffle Luv Cuffs Black

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    Secure your lover with these super-soft Luv Cuffs. Perfect for restraining either wrists or ankles, these comfy cuffs feature soft faux-fur lining ...

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  • Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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    Fifty Shades Hard Limits Restraint KitEverything you need for full body restraint, the Restraint Kit expertly turns your bed or other furniture int...

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    Ff Beginner Furry Cuffs Red

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    Lock up your lover and explore your fetish fantasies with these Beginner Furry Cuffs. Lined with velvety-soft faux fur, these first-timer cuffs kee...

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  • Temptasia - Safety Scissors - Black - SexToy.com
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    Temptasia - Safety Scissors - Black

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    Quickly and safely release your bound lover from rope, tape, poly wrap, zip ties, or soft bondage materials. Bondage Safety Scissors have a rounded...

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    Lock up your lover with these great and naughty metal handcuffs with faux fur. The locking mechanism has a quick release button in case you lose bo...

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  • Wraparound Mattress Restraints Black - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Wraparound Mattress Restraints - Black

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    Transform your bed into a passion playground and let the games begin! These wraparound mattress restraints open a world of possibilities for you an...

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    Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Cumfy Cuffs - Black

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    The use of restraint has always been a sexual stimulant -- with these fur lined Cumfy Cuffs, fantasy becomes reality! Lined with velvety-soft faux ...

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  • S&M Furry Handcuffs: Black | SexToy.com
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    S&M Furry Handcuffs: Black

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    Naughty and oh so nice. These sturdy nickel-free metal cuffs are covered with soft black faux fur. Fully locking cuffs with metal keys included.

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  • Scandal Spreader Bar Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Spreader Bar Black/Red

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    From California Exotic Novelties new Scandal line. Everybody wants to be a little naughty. Spreader bar. Forced positioning between lovers is an in...

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    Female Chest Harness Black Leather

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    Female Chest Harness Black Leather

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  • Ouch Beginners Furry Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Beginners Furry Handcuffs

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    Ouch Beginner's Handcuffs Furry White. Play around and lock up your lover with these great and naughty Beginner's Handcuffs. The locking mechanism ...

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  • Lux Fetish Expandable Spreader Bar Set With Detachable Leatherette Cuffs - SexToy.com
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    Lux Fetish Expandable Spreader Bar Set With Detachable Leatherette Cuffs

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    Explore kinky BDSM play with the Expandable Spreader Bar Set, which easily and comfortably spreads your partner’s legs as far apart as you need for...

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Metal | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Metal

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    Play around and lock up your lover with these naughty metal beginner's handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose...

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Black

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    Lock up your lover with these great metal handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose both keys. Measures 4.25 in....

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  • Fetish Fantasy Original Furry Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ff Furry Cuffs Red

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    Lock up your lover and explore your fetish fantasies with these fabulous Furry Cuffs. Lined with velvety-soft faux fur, these heavy-duty cuffs keep...

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  • Lux Fetish Hog Tie - SexToy.com
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    Lux Fetish Hog Tie

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    Treat your slave to sweet torture with the Lux Fetish Deluxe Chain Hogtie. With this restraint, you can put your submissive in a unique, exposed po...

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  • Printed Handcuffs With Handle Love Street Art Fashion Black | SexToy.com
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    Printed Handcuffs With Handle Love Street Art Fashion Black

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    Looking for a hand cuff with handle that is made to play hard with? Look no further. The Ajustable Leather Handcuffs with Handle of Ouch! are comfo...

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  • Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The comfortable ankle cuffs easily adjust with velcro to fit snug and...

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs Furry | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs Furry

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    Play around and lock up your lover with these naughty metal and faux fur beginner's handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in ...

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  • S&M Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    S&M Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs

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    Spread your wrist or ankles with this strong, rigid bar is adorned with metal cuffs. Use the key or quick release for easy on, easy off adjustabili...

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  • S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint | SexToy.com
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    S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint

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    Test your flexibility with the adjustable connection strap.  Use in the front or behind to keep your partners arms in front or behind their body fo...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.