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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Whip Smart Hog Tie | SexToy.com
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    Whip Smart Hog Tie

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    The first and only hog tie that allows full access to all of your partners most intimate areas. Just lock the wrist and ankles and enjoy the journe...

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  • Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit

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    Now you can turn any bed into the ultimate restraint! This Bedroom Restraint Kit is a portable way to easily restrain your partner. The H-shaped st...

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  • Kinklab bondage rope 25' | SexToy.com
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    Kinklab bondage rope 25'

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    Enough rope to enjoy yourself. The nylon Kinklab Bondage Rope comes in 25 length and is soft enough to be gentle on your bare skin yet strong enoug...

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  • Frisky Nylon Tethers Black | SexToy.com
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    Frisky Nylon Tethers Black

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    Keep them gently confined and exactly where you want them with these beginner friendly, adjustable tethers. Each tether can be adjusted to 31 inche...

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  • Acquire Easy Access Thigh Harness With Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com

    Acquire Easy Access Thigh Harness With Wrist Cuffs

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    Your submissive lover wants to be even more vulnerable to your desires! Put them in this positioning harness to spread their legs open and keep the...

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  • Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black | SexToy.com
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    Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black

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    Restrain your partner with seven body straps in varying lengths. Each one adjusts to tighten around your lovers prone body, allowing you to customi...

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  • Ouch! Binding Restraint Kit Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Binding Restraint Kit Black

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    Transform any bed into a wonderland of fun and let the games begin! The durable nylon tethers connect to 4 super soft neoprene lined cuffs, which e...

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  • Stand And Deliver Sex Position Body Sling | SexToy.com
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    Stand And Deliver Sex Position Body Sling

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    Stand and deliver! This 4 point sling is perfect for couples to get up close and personal. By hooking the top straps around his shoulders, and the ...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Bed Bindings Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Bed Restraint Bondage Kit

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    Explore your fetish fantasies! Transform your bed into a passion playground with the Bed Restraint Bondage Kit from Fetish Fantasy. This under-the-...

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  • Ouch! - Door Swing - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Door Swing - Black

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    @winter2019-61Door Swing - Black. Explore a variety of new positions with an ordinary door. Just place the 2 acrylic tubes over the top of any open...

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  • Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling | SexToy.com
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    Special Edition Door Jam Sex Sling

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    You won't believe what you can do behind closed doors! This Special Edition of our classic Door Jam Sex Sling includes a detachable Dildo and Bulle...

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  • Hold Me Bedroom Restraint System Black Standard Bed | SexToy.com
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    Hold Me Bedroom Restraint System Black Standard Bed

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    The Frisky Restraint System is portable and easily restrains with H shaped straps which fit underneath any size bed and reach around to securely cu...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Series Fantasy Door Swing - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Door Swing

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    Enjoy positions you never thought were possible! Using the Door Swing is easy. Simply drape the acrylic tubes over the top of the open door. Then, ...

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  • Adam & Eve Over The Door Bondage Cuffs Pink - SexToy.com

    Adam & Eve Over The Door Bondage Cuffs Pink

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    Support rods and straps secure these fully adjustable cuffs over the top of any door in seconds. Padded brocade cuffs are soft and adjustable from ...

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  • Take Me Thigh Cuff Restraint System | SexToy.com
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    Take Me Thigh Cuff Restraint System

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    With the Frisky Take Me Thigh Cuffs you are in for one hot ride! These confining cuffs are made of durable neoprene and nylon material, secured wit...

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  • Japanese Mini Rope 4.9 feet Red | SexToy.com
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    Japanese Mini Rope 4.9 feet Red

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    Have you been fantasizing about a sexy game with you for the dominant role. Then this will be the product for you! Make sure your love slave can't ...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Heavy Duty Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Heavy Duty Cuff Set

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    Secure your lover with this durable Heavy Duty Cuff set. Lined with neoprene and encased in a thick adjustable nylon strap the cuffs connect with 2...

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  • Frisky Pink Bedroom Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Frisky Pink Bedroom Restraint Kit

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    The Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit is portable and easily restrains with H-shaped straps that fit underneath any size bed and reach around to securel...

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  • Easy Access Spreader Bar System Black | SexToy.com
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    Easy Access Spreader Bar System Black

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    Easy Access Spreader Bar System Black

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  • Ouch Kinbaku Rope 35ft Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Kinbaku Rope 35ft Black

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    Have you been fantasizing about a sexy game with you for the dominant role. Then this will be the product for you! Make sure your love slave can't ...

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  • Frisky Stay Put Hog Tie Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Frisky Stay Put Hog Tie Restraints

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    This beginner hog tie system aides in immobilizing you in the most vulnerable of positions while your partner has full access to all your naughty b...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.