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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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    Scandal Control Cuffs Black/Red

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    Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Wraparound Mattress Restraints - Black

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    Transform your bed into a passion playground and let the games begin! These wraparound mattress restraints open a world of possibilities for you an...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Silk Rope Love Cuffs Black - SexToy.com
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    Ff Silk Rope Love Cuffs Black

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    Now you can enjoy the ancient art of Japanese bondage without having to be an expert! These Silk Rope Love Cuffs make rope-style bondage play fun a...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Ultimate Bed Restraint System - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Series Ultimate Bed Restraint System

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    Transform your bed into a passion playground with the Pipedream Ultimate Bed Restraint System. This easy-to-install bondage set is all you need to ...

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    Ff Bedroom Bondage Kit Black

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    Explore each other`s naughtier side with this all-in-one beginner`s bondage kit. Perfect for couples who`ve always wanted to try bondage, this kit ...

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    Door Jam Cuffs

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    These cuffs easily fit around the wrists and ankles with Velcro closure. Tubes hold the straps in place behind any door turning even the most blan...

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  • Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black | SexToy.com
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    Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black

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    Restrain your partner with seven body straps in varying lengths. Each one adjusts to tighten around your lovers prone body, allowing you to customi...

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    Stand And Deliver Sex Position Body Sling

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    Stand and deliver! This 4 point sling is perfect for couples to get up close and personal. By hooking the top straps around his shoulders, and the ...

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    Night Of Romance Satin Cuffs, Rose Petals 6 Piece Bed Spreader Set

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.