The ***** part is WAY too large WAY too soft to actually be a beginner's toy or a couple's toy and we're going to have to get another one. I'm sure it's nice for solo play but, nope, no way in **** that is going to work strapped to someone's crotch.
The harness itself actually isn't terrible. I'm not used to wearing them, but it's reasonably comfortable once I've been wearing it a while. The flexible o-ring is a really good idea in *theory*, but there were a few incidents with my **** falling off because it stretched too much, since I realized the straps had to be tighter than I first thought. Everything stayed in place while it was actually in use, though.