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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Silk Rope | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Silk Rope

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    With this super-soft and silky deluxe silky rope, you don't have to be an expert to enjoy the pleasure of Japanese-style bondage play. It's ideal f...

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  • Sex and Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Sex and Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs

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    One pair of vegan leather and fur lined handcuffs. Adjustable buckle closure. Black hardware with dual clasps.

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  • Luxury Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    Luxury Spreader Bar

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    @winter2019-67Luxury Spreader Bar - Black. Spread some love as well as your lover’s limbs for uninhibited access to the most intimate areas during ...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Japanese Silk Rope Hogtie Black - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Japanese Silk Rope Hogtie Black

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    You don't have to be an expert to enjoy exciting Japanese rope play! Master the ancient art of Japanese rope bondage with ease! This pre-assembled ...

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  • Sex And Mischief Silky Sash Restraints Black | SexToy.com
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    Sex And Mischief Silky Sash Restraints Black

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    2 luxurious silky sashes, 4 feet long and 4 inches wide. Use on wrists, ankles, as a blindfold, or anywhere you can imagine. Polyester fabric.

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  • Frisky Stay Put Hog Tie Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Frisky Stay Put Hog Tie Restraints

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    This beginner hog tie system aides in immobilizing you in the most vulnerable of positions while your partner has full access to all your naughty b...

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  • Lux Fetish 5 Piece Hogtie Set Black | SexToy.com
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    Lux Fetish 5 Piece Hogtie Set Black

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    The Lux Fetish 5 Piece Hogtie Set is a BDSM couples dream! Take full control of your partner while they are secured in positions that you never tho...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Luv Cuffs Black | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Luv Cuffs Black

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    Secure your lover with these super soft Luv Cuffs. Perfect for restraining either wrists or ankles, these comfy cuffs feature soft faux-fur lining ...

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  • Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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    Fifty Shades Hard Limits Restraint KitEverything you need for full body restraint, the Restraint Kit expertly turns your bed or other furniture int...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Fantasy Harness Restraint Black - SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Fantasy Harness Restraint Black

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    Your sub will beg to be bound by the Fetish Fantasy Series Fantasy Harness! This heavy duty restraint system allows you to access multiple position...

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  • Bed Bondage Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Bed Bondage Restraint Kit

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    Bed Bondage Restraint Kit Keep your restraints ready to use at any time! Once the restraints are attached and in place, they are easily tucked bet...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Extreme Hog-tie Kit | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Extreme Hog-tie Kit

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    Take total control over your lover's every move with this Extreme Hogtie Kit. This easy-to-use hogtie kit includes neoprene wrist and ankle cuffs,...

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  • Neck & Wrist Restraint | SexToy.com
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    Neck & Wrist Restraint

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    Neck Wrist Restraint This soft but Sturdy collar with Velcro has a heavy nylon webbing restraint strap and sturdy metal D-rings. The kit includes ...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Beginners Furry Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Beginners Furry Cuffs

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    Lock up your lover and explore your fetish fantasies with these Beginner Furry Cuffs. Lined with velvety soft faux fur, these first timer cuffs kee...

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  • Bondage Bar with Neoprene Velcro Cuffs 24 inches Black | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Bar with Neoprene Velcro Cuffs 24 inches Black

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    Bondage Bar A classic bondage item is now out of the dungeon and in your bedroom. Four comfortable neoprene and Velcro cuffs attached to a rigid n...

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  • Fetish Fantasy Pleasure Tape | SexToy.com
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    Fetish Fantasy Pleasure Tape

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    Put your lover in a sticky situation with this non-sticky bondage tape. This shiny PVC tape only sticks to itself, so it does not pull hair or leav...

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  • Japanese Style Bondage Rope | SexToy.com
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    Japanese Style Bondage Rope

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    Play rough to your hearts content with a full 32 feet (10 meters) of soft cotton bondage rope that will not rub or chafe the skin. The super long l...

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  • Bondage Bed Sheet King -Black | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Bed Sheet King -Black

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    King Size - Four straps secure sheet sides under the bed, and drawstring cinches sheet tightly around mattress. Anchors attach to the sheets but ca...

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  • Thigh and Wrist Cuff Set | SexToy.com
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    Thigh and Wrist Cuff Set

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    A little restriction goes a long way! The Thigh and Wrist Cuff Set is made of soft, strong Neoprene. The wrist cuffs secure with Velcro and attach ...

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  • Tethers | SexToy.com
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    Tethers

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    Pair of 48 inch adjustable length nylon tethers fasten around, or to almost anything from bedposts to chair legs. Easy, adjustable length lets you ...

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  • Scandal Control Cuffs Black/Red | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Control Cuffs Black/Red

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    From California Exotic Novelties new Scandal line. Everybody wants to be a little naughty. Scandal Control Cuffs. Designed for perfect leverage and...

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  • The Pussy Spreader Female Bondage Device - Bulk | SexToy.com
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    The Pussy Spreader Female Bondage Device - Bulk

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    When engaging in hot bondage action, there are times when you want to bring their pussy into play. The Pussy Spreader allows you to take a set of a...

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  • Kinklab leather wrist cuffs - black | SexToy.com
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    Kinklab leather wrist cuffs - black

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    Exhibit a little restraint! These leather wrist cuffs from KinkLab offer a self-keeping design that stays on with or without padlocks. Cuffs fit 5....

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  • Under The Bed Restraint System Black | SexToy.com
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    Under The Bed Restraint System Black

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    Under The Bed Restraint Turn any size bed into a place of binding pleasure. Restraint straps quickly fit beneath any mattress or frame without hoo...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.