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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Now you can turn any bed into the ultimate restraint! This Bedroom Restraint Kit is a portable way to easily restrain your partner. The H-shaped st...

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    Keep them gently confined and exactly where you want them with these beginner friendly, adjustable tethers. Each tether can be adjusted to 31 inche...

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    The Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit is portable and easily restrains with H-shaped straps that fit underneath any size bed and reach around to securel...

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    Lock them up in comfort and style with these padded bondage cuffs. Double layered and padded internally, they are lightweight yet secure, with a re...

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    Stand and deliver! This 4 point sling is perfect for couples to get up close and personal. By hooking the top straps around his shoulders, and the ...

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  • Hold Me Bedroom Restraint System Black Standard Bed | SexToy.com
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    Hold Me Bedroom Restraint System Black Standard Bed

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    The Frisky Restraint System is portable and easily restrains with H shaped straps which fit underneath any size bed and reach around to securely cu...

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    With the Frisky Take Me Thigh Cuffs you are in for one hot ride! These confining cuffs are made of durable neoprene and nylon material, secured wit...

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    This beginner hog tie system aides in immobilizing you in the most vulnerable of positions while your partner has full access to all your naughty b...

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    Bound Around Neck To Wrist Restraints

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.