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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Scandal Corset Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Corset Cuffs

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    Everybody wants to be a little naughty. Explore the boundaries of trust and intimacy with these Scandal Corset Cuffs. Totally adjustable cuffs with...

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  • Scandal Over The Bed Cross Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Scandal Over The Bed Cross Restraints

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    Scandal Over the Bed Cross style bed restraints. Includes totally adjustable and detachable universal wrist and ankle cuffs. Soft and plushy on one...

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  • Scandal 8 Points Of Pleasure Love Bed Restraints | SexToy.com
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    Scandal 8 Points Of Pleasure Love Bed Restraints

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    Thoughtfully designed for mutual pleasure. Make more of your intimate moments. Non-tarnishing and nickel free, this product is safe and worry free....

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  • Scandal BDSM Rope 98.5 feet Black | SexToy.com
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    Scandal BDSM Rope 98.5 feet Black

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    Give into your BDSM fantasies and get creative with 98.5 feet of Scandal BDSM Rope. Our award winning Scandal Collection has created the silky smoo...

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  • Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit | SexToy.com
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    Frisky Bedroom Restraint Kit

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    Now you can turn any bed into the ultimate restraint! This Bedroom Restraint Kit is a portable way to easily restrain your partner. The H-shaped st...

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  • Love Cuffs Ankle Black Orange Lining | SexToy.com
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    Love Cuffs Ankle Black Orange Lining

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    Awesome faux fur lined leg cuffs with strong chains and sturdy metal buckles. Wonderful leatherette trim add a sexy orange accent of restraint and ...

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  • Sxy Cuffs Perfectly Bound Black | SexToy.com
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    Sxy Cuffs Perfectly Bound Black

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    Perfectly Bound Deluxe Neoprene Cross Cuffs. A Revolutionary Cuff for the NXT Level of Bondage Play. Firm hold for instant control and passionate p...

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  • Spread Me Black Steel Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    Spread Me Black Steel Spreader Bar

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    Master Series Black Steel Adjustable Spreader Bar. Keep your plaything in place and spread them wide with this darkly sexy spreader bar. Made of du...

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  • Locking Padded Wrist Cuffs With Chain Black | SexToy.com
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    Locking Padded Wrist Cuffs With Chain Black

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    Lock them up in comfort and style with these padded bondage cuffs. Double layered and padded internally, they are lightweight yet secure, with a re...

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  • Acquire Easy Access Thigh Harness With Wrist Cuffs | SexToy.com

    Acquire Easy Access Thigh Harness With Wrist Cuffs

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    Your submissive lover wants to be even more vulnerable to your desires! Put them in this positioning harness to spread their legs open and keep the...

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  • Coax Collar To Wrist Restraints Black Brown | SexToy.com
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    Coax Collar to Wrist Restraints

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    Lock up your slave in this attractive and unique collar to wrist restraint set. This three-in-one bondage gear contains a luxurious vegan-friendly...

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  • Strict Thigh Cuff Restraint System Black | SexToy.com
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    Strict Thigh Cuff Restraint System Black

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    Your play thing will not be able to move their wrists when you bind them with this unique cuff set. Each restraint buckles around the thigh and con...

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  • Deluxe Thigh Sling With Wrist Cuffs Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Deluxe Thigh Sling With Wrist Cuffs Black Leather

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    Get your play thing into the perfect position for penetration! Spread those legs open and restrain those wrists! This highly adjustable bondage sli...

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  • Strict Spreader Bar System Black | SexToy.com
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    Strict Spreader Bar System Black

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    Strap your lover into this comfortable spreader bar to heighten the mood! Excite your sex life with this bondage positioning aid, designed to sprea...

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  • Deluxe Bed Restraint Kit Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Deluxe Bed Restraint Kit Black Leather

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    Strap your partner down to the bed and turn them into your personal submissive pet! Instantly transform your bed into a piece of bondage furniture,...

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  • Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black | SexToy.com
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    Subdued Full Body Straps Nylon Restraints Black

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    Restrain your partner with seven body straps in varying lengths. Each one adjusts to tighten around your lovers prone body, allowing you to customi...

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  • Arm Binder Biceps & Forearm Restraints Black Leather | SexToy.com
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    Arm Binder Biceps & Forearm Restraints Black Leather

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    Trap your submissives arms behind their back, while you have your way with them. Made with locking buckles, your plaything will be thoroughly trapp...

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  • Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps Black | SexToy.com
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    Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps Black

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    Turn up the intensity of your kinkiest scenes with these unique straps, designed to wrap around your thighs, clamp onto your labia, and spread them...

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  • Ouch Leather Cuffs For Hand and Ankles O/S | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Leather Cuffs For Hand and Ankles O/S

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The cuffs of Ouch! have quality leather straps with elegant stitching...

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  • Ouch! Binding Restraint Kit Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Binding Restraint Kit Black

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    Transform any bed into a wonderland of fun and let the games begin! The durable nylon tethers connect to 4 super soft neoprene lined cuffs, which e...

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  • Ouch Adjustable Leather Handcuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Adjustable Leather Handcuffs

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    Looking for a handcuff with handle that is made to play hard with? Look no further. The Adjustable Leather Handcuffs with Handle of Ouch! are comfo...

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  • Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Wrist Or Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Wrist Or Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps

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  • Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Hand Cuffs With Handle With Adjustable Straps Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Bonded Leather Hand Cuffs With Handle With Adjustable Straps Black

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    Looking for a handcuff with handle that is made to play hard with? Look no further. The Adjustable Leather Handcuffs with Handle of Ouch! are comfo...

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  • Ouch! Black & White Plush Bonded Leather Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Black & White Plush Bonded Leather Ankle Cuffs With Adjustable Straps Black

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    The OUCH! Plush ankle cuffs have been designed with comfort in mind while being tied up in your play! The cuffs have a furry lining, an adjustable ...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.