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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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    Luxury Spreader Bar

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    @winter2019-67Luxury Spreader Bar - Black. Spread some love as well as your lover’s limbs for uninhibited access to the most intimate areas during ...

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  • Ouch! - Door Restraint Set - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Door Restraint Set - Black

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    @winter2019-61Door Restraint Set - Black. Easily attach to any door to enjoy some bondage fun. Just place the 2 acrylic tubes over the top of any o...

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  • Ouch! Leather Cuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Leather Cuffs - Black

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    These cuffs have quality leather straps with elegant stitching down the length of the straps. The straps have 6 holes to adjust the length and have...

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  • Ouch Pleasure Handcuffs Furry Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Lock up your lover with these great and naughty metal handcuffs with faux fur. The locking mechanism has a quick release button in case you lose bo...

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  • Ouch Diamond Studded Wrist Cuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Diamond Studded Wrist Cuffs - Black

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    Get ready to please or receive in the intense Diamond BDSM line. Glamorously tough, the perfect combination of firm (faux) leather and glamourous d...

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  • Ouch Halo Thigh Cuffs Burgundy | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Halo Thigh Cuffs Burgundy

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    If you are going to follow the rules that were laid out to you, do so in style! The luxurious color, the lovely leather look and beautiful golden d...

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  • Ouch Halo Wrist & Ankle Cuffs Green | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Halo Wrist & Ankle Cuffs Green

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  • Bondage Couture Rope 25 Feet Gold | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Couture Rope - Gold

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    Indulge your innermost desires with Bondage Couture from NS Novelties. Meticulously crafted from superior materials and featuring exquisite details...

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  • Bondage Couture Rope 25 Feet - Blue | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Couture Rope 25 Feet - Blue

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  • Bondage Couture Tie Down Straps - Blue | SexToy.com
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    Bondage Couture Tie Down Straps - Blue

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  • GLO Bondage Hog Tie Green | SexToy.com
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    GLO Bondage Hog Tie Green

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    A new twist for your fetish adventures with GLO in the dark restraints gear. BDSM essentials that are easy to clean, made of synthetic materials, a...

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  • GLO Bondage Ankle Cuff Green | SexToy.com
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    GLO Bondage Ankle Cuff Green

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  • GLO Bondage Wrist Cuff Green | SexToy.com
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    GLO Bondage Wrist Cuff Green

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Metal | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Metal

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    Play around and lock up your lover with these naughty metal beginner's handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose...

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  • Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Beginner's Handcuffs - Black

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    Lock up your lover with these great metal handcuffs. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose both keys. Measures 4.25 in....

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  • Ouch! - Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black

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    @winter2019-61Bondage Belt Restraint System - Black. The Bondage Belt Restraint System will turn your bedroom into the ultimate fun zone. For begin...

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  • Ouch! - Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! - Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black

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    Bed Post Bindings Restraing Kit - Black. The Bed post-restraint kit is perfect for those couples looking to explore bondage in the bedroom. Easily ...

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  • Luxury Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Luxury Ankle Cuffs

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    @winter2019-67Luxury Ankle Cuffs - Burgundy. Enrich you BDSM play with these elegant yet super strong ankle cuffs! With 7 adjustable holes, they wi...

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  • Luxury Hand Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Luxury Hand Cuffs

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    @winter2019-67Luxury Hand Cuffs - Burgundy. Enrich your BDSM play with these elegant yet super strong handcuffs! With 6 adjustable holes they will ...

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  • Printed Handcuffs With Handle Love Street Art Fashion Black | SexToy.com
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    Printed Handcuffs With Handle Love Street Art Fashion Black

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    Looking for a hand cuff with handle that is made to play hard with? Look no further. The Ajustable Leather Handcuffs with Handle of Ouch! are comfo...

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  • Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Printed Ankle Cuffs - Love Street Art Fasion - Black

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The comfortable ankle cuffs easily adjust with velcro to fit snug and...

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  • Japanese Bondage Silicone Cuffs - SexToy.com
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    Japanese Bondage Silicone Cuffs

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    For both beginners and restraint enthusiasts, these premium silicone cuffs feature a single piece molded design with no metal hardware to break, sn...

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  • Ouch! Japanese Rope 10 Meter | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Japanese Rope 10 Meter

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    Made of a very silky and comfortable material for rope play. Length is 10 meters (33 feet). Width is 0.8 cm (0.3 in.). @OUCHRED

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  • Ouch! Plush Leather Ankle Cuffs | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Plush Leather Ankle Cuffs

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    Designed to be comfortable during fetish play. Cuffs feature a furry lining, an adjustable strap with a sturdy clasp for a great fit and an attache...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.