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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Ouch Diamond Studded Ankle Cuffs - Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Diamond Studded Ankle Cuffs - Black

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    Get ready to please or receive in the intense Diamond BDSM line. Glamorously tough, the perfect combination of firm (faux) leather and glamourous d...

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    Fetish Fantasy Heavy Duty Cuff Set

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    Secure your lover with this durable Heavy Duty Cuff set. Lined with neoprene and encased in a thick adjustable nylon strap the cuffs connect with 2...

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  • Spreader Bar Adjustable General Purpose | SexToy.com
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    Spreader Bar Adjustable General Purpose

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    Adjustable General Purpose bar. Adjustable from 25 inches to 36 inches. Does not include cuffs. Warning: This is a NEW item that is not in retail p...

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  • Ouch! Skulls And Bones Handcuffs With Spikes Black | SexToy.com
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    Ouch! Skulls And Bones Handcuffs With Spikes Black

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    With two rows of impressive spikes, a double clasp on each handcuff and a sturdy, detachable, metal connection, this bracelet shows you mean busine...

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  • Ouch Velcro Cuffs for Hand and Ankles Pink | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Velcro Cuffs for Hand and Ankles Pink

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    Looking for a cuff that can do it all and made to play hard? Look no further. The comfortable  hand and leg cuffs easily adjust with velcro to fit ...

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  • Adjustable Spreader Bar | SexToy.com
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    Adjustable Spreader Bar

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    Spread 'em wide! The Adjustable Spreader Bar from KinkLab adjusts from 25in - 37in (63.5 - 94cm). It breaks down into 3 parts for easy travel and h...

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  • Bff Kinky Kuffs Pink | SexToy.com
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    BFF KINKY KUFFS PINK

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    Si Novelties Best Friends Forever Collection Kinky Kuff Pink you're bound to please. Faux leather cuffs with chain and buckle closures. One size fi...

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  • Fifty Shades Keep Still Over The Bed Cross Restraint | SexToy.com
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    FIFTY SHADES KEEP STILL OVER THE BED CROSS RESTRAINT SILVER

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    Fifty Shades of Grey Playroom Over the Bed Cross Restraints Silver. Explore new styles of bondage game with this Bondage Cross, which allows you to...

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  • Ouch Velcro Cuffs Purple | SexToy.com
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    Ouch Velcro Cuffs Purple

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    Levitate Suspension Bar

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    Spread them wide and suspend your lover to your whims! The Levitate Suspension Bar is made to be hung from a solid ceiling anchor point so you can ...

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    Temptasia Furry Pink Cuffs

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    Temptasia Furry Pink Cuffs. It is role play night, now assume the position because it is time to get just a little naughty! How about the night tha...

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  • Bondage Soft Rope 33ft Purple - SexToy.com
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    BONDAGE SOFT ROPE 33FT PURPLE

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    Bondage Soft Rope 33 feet Purple from Spartacus Leathers. Spartacus Bondage Rope is perfect for beginners and experts alike. Due to its soft materi...

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  • Bondage Soft Rope 33ft Red - SexToy.com
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    BONDAGE SOFT ROPE 33FT RED

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    Bondage Soft Rope 33 feet Red from Spartacus Leathers. Spartacus Bondage Rope is perfect for beginners and experts alike. Due to its soft material,...

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  • Easy Toys Thigh & Wrist Cuff Restraint Set Black - SexToy.com
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    Easy Toys Thigh & Wrist Cuff Set - Black

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    With this special thigh and wrist cuff set, you can tie your sub's hands to his or her thighs. This way you have complete control for an enjoyable ...

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  • Sub-tied Hemp Bondage Rope -10m | SexToy.com
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    Sub-tied Hemp Bondage Rope -10m

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    Made with 100% natural and environmentally friendly hemp! Reliable, strong, and textured for extra sensation and friction - perfect for Shibari and...

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  • Nickel Coated Steel Handcuffs With Single Lock - Silver | SexToy.com
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    Nickel Coated Steel Handcuffs With Single Lock - Silver

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    Good pair of handcuffs with single lock and keys. Nickel finish.

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  • Handcuffs Black Coated Steel Single Lock - Black | SexToy.com
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    BLACK SINGLE LOCK HANDCUFFS

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    Bondage Gear handcuffs. Metal handcuffs. Black coated steel. Spartacus handcuffs are available in dual locking and single locking. Single lock hand...

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  • Double End Snap Clip - SexToy.com
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    DOUBLE END SNAP CLIP

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    Spartacus Leathers Bondage Gear Connectors Double End Snap Clip. Double your bondage fun with this basic double ended clip. Clip your wrist restrai...

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  • Bondage Soft Rope 33ft Pink - SexToy.com
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    Bondage Soft Rope 10m 33ft - Pink

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    High quality, woven from natural cotton, very soft and smooth to touch, Spartacus Bondage Rope is perfect for beginners and experts alike. Due to ...

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  • Easy Toys Fetish Wrist Cuffs Black - SexToy.com

    Easy Toys Faux Leather Handcuffs - Black

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    Bind your sub's hands together or tie them to the bed for an exciting bondage experience! The cuffs can be adjusted from 11 to 28cm and therefore a...

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  • Easy Toys Fetish Ankle Cuffs Black - SexToy.com
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    Easy Toys Fetish Ankle Cuffs - Black

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    These beautiful ankle cuffs make sure your sub cannot escape your control! The cuffs can be adjusted from 13 to 30cm and therefore always fit perfe...

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  • Easy Toys 4 Way Hogtie Black - SexToy.com
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    Easy Toys Faux Leather Hogtie - Black

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    With this versatile faux leather hogtie you can make every bondage game extra thrilling. Use it for example with hand cuffs, ankle cuffs, collars o...

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  • Kinklab Panamorphic 3-in-1 Paddle | SexToy.com
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    Kinklab Panamorphic 3-in-1 Paddle

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    KinkLab's Panamorphic Paddle 3-in-1 Spanking Set does more than spank! Consider this sensation play. The paddle has three different sides, one bein...

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  • Bondo Hardware Brass Padlock .75 Inch | SexToy.com
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    Bondo Hardware Brass Padlock .75 Inch

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    A secure padlock to lock up your valuables, and you toys. Keys may or may not be included.

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.