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Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. ...

Restraints are the backbone of BDSM play. The act of tying up a partner during sex creates a clear dynamic of dominant and submissive with one partner prone to the other’s will. One can restrain a partner with something as simple as a sash tie or as complex as a full-bed restraint system. There is a wide variety of bondage gear, including both vegan and leather options, and a near-endless combination of ways to use them, and we keep a large selection to facilitate it. 

Sash ties and handcuffs are simple restraints that are easy to use. Handcuffs vary from simple metal cuffs to decorative furry cuffs, as well as slip-on silicone and rope cuffs. Wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are more heavy duty, often coming with D-rings and clasps to attach to hogtie crosses, bedpost restraints, bondage boards, and other BDSM restraint systems. Position restraints like spreader bars, body harnesses, and posture collars keep the sub in a desired position, while bedpost and under-the-mattress restraint systems utilize the whole bed. 

For a more customized restraint system, bondage rope is a popular fetish. Whether used for simple bondage rope ties or advanced shibari body ties or even rope suspension, BDSM rope provides open-ended possibilities. Similarly, bondage tape, which sticks only to itself and not to the body, can be applied to any liking for DIY bondage enthusiasts. 

During restraint play, as with any BDSM play, it is important to communicate consent, as well as establish boundaries and safe words to ensure the comfort and safety of each partner and thus establish a fun and playful atmosphere. 

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  • Coquette Pleasure Collection Cuffs White - SexToy.com
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    Coquette Pleasure Collection Cuffs White

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    Coquette's deluxe storage/keepsake box is not only perfect for personal storage, but also for in-store display. This stylish and elegant box now fe...

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  • Neva Nude Boob Tape 16 Ft. Dark - SexToy.com
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    Neva Nude Boob Tape 16 Ft. Dark

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    Get the perks of a bodacious bustline without the added baggage! Our Neva Nude Boob Tape gives you the lift you need while remaining subtly hidden ...

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  • In A Bag Cotton Rope 32ft Black - SexToy.com
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    In A Bag Cotton Rope 32ft Black

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    Tie up everything you need with 32 feet of black, cotton rope that won't rub or chafe the skin. The extra-long length gives the users freedom to bi...

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  • In A Bag Furry Handcuffs Black - SexToy.com
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    In A Bag Furry Handcuffs Black

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    For both beginners and restraint enthusiasts, are covered with soft faux fur to cushion the metal cuffs. Perfect for bondage play, these cuffs prov...

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  • Ple'sur Wrapped Spreader Bar Red - SexToy.com
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    Ple'sur Wrapped Spreader Bar Red

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    This PVC decoratively wrapped spreader bar will keep them open, willing and in place, fits most cuffs. Attach wrist and ankle cuffs for bondage play.

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  • Ple'sur 3 Point T Spreader Bar Metal - SexToy.com
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    Ple'sur 3 Point T Spreader Bar Metal

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    This metal spreader bar will keep them open willing and in place, fits most cuffs. T shaped 3 point Attach wrist and ankle cuffs for bondage play.C...

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  • Coquette Pleasure Collection Silky Rope - SexToy.com
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    Coquette Pleasure Collection Silky Rope

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    Silky smooth texture Versatile large metal opening ring diameter: 2" (5cm) Metal cap details 32' long (9.6 meters) Thickness: 0.25" (7mm) Compatib...

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  • Coquette Pleasure Collection Silky Rope Red - SexToy.com
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    Coquette Pleasure Collection Silky Rope Red

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    Silky smooth texture Versatile large metal opening ring diameter: 2" (5cm) Metal cap details 32' long (9.6 meters) Thickness: 0.25" (7mm) Compatib...

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  • Dreamgirl Multicolored Heart Embroidered Bustier, G-string And Wrist Restraints Set Peony O/s - SexToy.com
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    BUSTIER W/ HEART EMBROIDERY & RESTRAINTS PEONY O/S

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    Bustier with Heart Embroidery and Restraints O/S from Dreamgirl Lingerie. One size fits most. Ladies sizes 2 to 14. Cups D/DD. Bust 32 inches to 38...

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  • Shibari Silky Soft Bondage Rope 5 Meters - Black | SexToy.com
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    Shibari Silky Soft Bondage Rope 5 Meters - Black

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    Shibari Silky Soft Rope is a strong yet gentle and soft all-purpose rope High Quality Superior Strength 16-Foot Rope Strong and Gentle 8-Plait Braid

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  • Lux Fetish Bed Spreader 7-piece Restraint Set Red - SexToy.com
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    Lux Fetish Bed Spreader 7-piece Restraint Set Red

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    Indulge in the world of sensual exploration and passionate play with the Lux Fetish 7-Piece Bed Spreader Restraint System in a seductive red color....

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  • Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Brat Locking Cuffs - SexToy.com
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    Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Brat Locking Cuffs

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    Give your brattiest partner a reason to reconsider their actions with the Brat Locking Cuffs! Crafted with sleek black vegan leather and adorned wi...

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  • Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Puff Nipple Clamps - SexToy.com
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    Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Puff Nipple Clamps

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    Lose yourself in the soft and teasing Puff Nipple Clamps. Surrender to every sensual touch of the two soft and tickling puff balls. The adjustable,...

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  • Rosegasm Spreader Bar Set W/ Ankle Cuffs - SexToy.com
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    Rosegasm Spreader Bar Set W/ Ankle Cuffs

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    Sweet Kisses Rosegasm Spreader Bar Set with Ankle Cuffs from X-Gen Products. Intensify stimulation with a sensual and stylish spreader bar that kee...

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  • Japanese Mini Rope 1.5m Purple - SexToy.com
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    Japanese Mini Rope 1.5m Purple

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    Ouch Japanese Mini Rope 1.5 meter Pink. Have you been fantasizing about a sexy game with you for the dominant role. Then this will be the product f...

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  • Padded Spreader Bar With Restraints - SexToy.com
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    BEDROOM BLISS SEX SPREADER

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    Bedroom Bliss Collection Sex Spreader Padded Spreader Bar with Restraints from XR Brands. Open up your kinky play by Spreading arms or legs with th...

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  • Lover's Bed Restraint System - SexToy.com
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    Bedroom Bliss Lover's Bed Restraint System

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    Get in bed and keep your partner there with this deluxe bed restraint system! The included wrist and ankle cuffs feature plush padding and ultra-so...

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  • Tied Up Jute Bondage Rope - 50 Feet - SexToy.com
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    Tied Up Jute Bondage Rope - 50 Feet

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    This natural jute rope is perfect for purists or naturalists who love the look and feel of natural fibers! Jute is strong, long lasting and has its...

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  • Tied Up Jute Bondage Rope - 25 Feet - SexToy.com
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    Tied Up Jute Bondage Rope - 25 Feet

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    This natural jute rope is perfect for purists or naturalists who love the look and feel of natural fibers! Jute is strong, long lasting and has its...

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  • Lover's Door Swing - SexToy.com
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    Bedroom Bliss Lovers Door Swing

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    Help your partner lift you to new heights with this padded door swing! Enjoy the durable nylon straps and plush padding for your thighs, legs and b...

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  • Pink Bondage Thigh Harness With Bows - M/l - SexToy.com
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    Pink Bondage Thigh Harness With Bows - M/l

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    The use of your body is a gift; treat it like one with this bondage harness and wrap up your waist, thighs and wrists like a nice, little package -...

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  • Black Bondage Thigh Harness With Bows - M/l - SexToy.com
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    Black Bondage Thigh Harness With Bows - M/l

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    The use of your body is a gift; treat it like one with this bondage harness and wrap up your waist, thighs and wrists like a nice, little package -...

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  • Strict Bed Bondage Restraint Kit - SexToy.com
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    Strict Bed Bondage Restraint Kit

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    Key Features6-Piece Bondage Kit: Everything you need for kinky bedroom bondage fun is included in this set: A Set of bed restraints, a blindfold, b...

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  • Levitate Suspension Bar - SexToy.com
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    Levitate Suspension Bar

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    Spread them wide and suspend your lover to your whims! The Levitate Suspension Bar is made to be hung from a solid ceiling anchor point so you can ...

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Let your dominator show ownership with one of our sexy human collars and leashes. These BDSM essentials offer restraint around the neck so that you can lead your slave to a night of pleasure.

Show your submissive status with one of our genuine leather BDSM collars for women or men. These luxurious accessories not only signify your BDSM role,  but can also be worn as a sexy accessory during foreplay or role-playing adventures. You can either purchase BDSM leash and collar sets or buy them separately depending on your unique preferences. We have BDSM collar leashes made from metal chain, leather, and other high-quality materials.

We only carry the best of the best bondage brands in our large selection. Wear a Sweet Heart Chrome as a BDSM necklace or choose a locking BDSM collar so there’s no question who is in charge. Don't forget to complete your purchase with whips, restraints, cuffs, blindfolds, ball gags and much more from our bondage store.